Lest one thinks that life in the tropics is all sunshine ..it does rain sometimes...and here sometimes at this time of the year often outlasts a lot of the time...(if you can get my meaning)
Cambodians call foreigners as Barang, especially if they are gringos (North Europeans and North Americans.) But they assume that any Non-Asian person is aBarang. It corresponds in the Thai language to Farang.
And when you are a barang you sometimes need the comfort of barang contact if only for the ease of speaking reasonably clear english and some shared cultural values and common understandings. It might be as simple as not having to explain why you like bread and don't eat rice (ri as they say) with every meal. Most of the barangs here are just tourists passing through for a day or two to do some forest trekking and see some elephants.
Living here has limited outlets in terms of diversions...no tv, coffee shops, real pubs, cinema etc and if you wake up early in the morning it can be an interminably long day. I found myself eating cigarettes, literally; like 3 or 4 with one cup of Ovaltine (coffee substitute)
The restaurant run by Callum Walker from Van Diemans land became a life saver for me. This is Callum and his Cambodian partner Sopeak and her son from another relationship (marriage). Sopeak's family had a guest house and Callum set up a restaurant 6 month's ago. The place is called Sovankiri the Kymer for golden hills.
Callum is a decent, sound, clued in young man and we spent a lot of time together drinking Cambodia beer, sometimes the Mondulkiri coffee which is actually grown in Vietnam (like a lot of the agricultural produce sold in Cambodia and I got him going on doing cryptic crosswords.
His partner, a grand girl, is pregnant a with his child and is suffering badly with the early stages of it and probably giving C, not unnaturally, a hard time at times (I sometimes address her as the queen of Mondulkiri) so sometimes I provided the opportunity for him to talk about things.
This is George the gecko who haunts one wall of the restaurant devouring the rich insect life of Mondulkiri. Its hard not to like geckos..so different to rats , such as inhabited the attic of my house
This is Callum Walker treating me to a drop of Johnny Walker (no relation)
This is his waitress Soriboor who possesses a most wonderful smile. I uses continually ask her if she was practicing her dancing. "oh no cant dance" was the constant reply.
See what i mean..great smile
This is Taka with the unlikely surname of Burke Gaffney. Father is Irish Canadian and Mum is Japanese. Nagasaki Irish via Canada and he does a mean version of Seven Drunken Nights and tries to live up to his Irish roots by out skulling every barang in the joint. Great company at the table and probably needs the beers as he spends his day with elephant trekkers and in rain and sunshine.
Chips for that old feeling of nostalgia
Me , the queen of Mondulkiri and the smiler sitting at traditional heavy Cambodian furniture
Where would we be without the devil , drink
A crowd of barangs with one brave Kymer teaching who is now a good friend of mine.
Happy people wishing me well on my journey home .
Happy VSO volunteers who also look happy to see me go (joking)
I went to a type of Karaoke one night (was treated my a few of the Cambodian teachers). It was interesting and different to Sovankiri, dark with coloured lights, a club like ambience and more up market. Where we went is a cross between a restaurant and a karaoke (partial brothel) and this one had mixed groups eating and singing. There was an inner sanctum where the ante, i am told, is raised and one could have individual attention from some of the ladies (seen here dancing). I hope they were better at service delivery as their dancing was poor or maybe they were bored.
We got a little individual attention but mainly to get us to drink the beer faster.
This painted lady greeted us on our arrival and kept saying sometime to me about a girlfriend (in broken English). I presume it was a pitch of some type. She was also part of the band that were playing and had a fine voice. Then she reappeared at out table, things were quiet on the night, and helped herself to our beer dispenser.
Then the big surprise when my Cambodian teacher friend Kongkear sang two songs and did so beautifully in a romantic falsetto style that seems popular here.
It was worth going to see, especially as Cambodian men love talking about Karaoke BUT my pleasures are simpler and hanging out at Sovankiri kept body and soul together.
And now holidays to Ireland and decision time about whether to return or not are imminent. I have accomplished more than I initially expected, have set up the first science laboratory in the province, produced a manual in English and Kymer with about 40 experiments, have had a number of training sessions with the science teachers and a couple with groups of students, done a bit of networking with other NGOs in the science education area, produced a small dictionary of science terms in English and Kymer. So I feel I have achieved a number of the goals set for me. However, they want me to be part of a Dutch funded project that extended into the middle of next year and i just can't commit to that length of time. So I may or may not be returning (for a short stint ) in the autumn. Lack of sleep and continual sweating does take its toll.
All to be decided but glad I came.
Its not every town that puts up road signs to greet its transient inhabitants but Sen Monorom obviously made an exception for me as you can see below.
Having been to the hills of gold a green horn is crossing/going back to Ireland.
Maybe returning but its unlikely but Cambodia and its people will have left a special mark in my heart.